Suicide
Adults/children may indicate or allude to suicidal ideas. Clarify and take action. Ask: “are you thinking about suicide?”. Be discreet but direct. Avoid saying “don’t do something stupid” or talking about ideas of sin; this can make them feel worse. If they are thinking about suicide, focus on ‘pausing’; not ‘fixing’ whatever feelings circumstances led to this point. Listen well and let them share. This can help by reminding them they’re not alone and developing a different perspective through talking.
Ask if they have a plan. If they don’t, still take action:
Contact a friend / family member / 999 / Luton adult safeguarding / MASH
Agree for them to call their GP
Signpost to or make referrals for mental health or wellbeing services
If they do have a plan, take action immediate action:
Contact a friend / relative / guardian to be with them
Call the emergency services, Luton adult safeguarding or MASH, depending on the state the individual is in, time of day, and guidance recieved.
Aim for consent before contacting services. Complete a SG Form.